Author: Lulu
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My Crazy Obsession.
I would rather die than let him have you. I don’t care if I get arrested or people call me crazy but I will never allow you to be with him. I couldn’t allow him to continue with these words. I have always considered myself humanly strong but not in this case. I felt my […]
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The life Update of a Tired Nigerian.
I have been meaning to write about myself for a while but I found it hard to do. I keep telling myself how I could just write lies and no one would know a thing. After putting so much into consideration, I have decided to subtly give it a try in this piece. The […]
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The Use of Stock Photography in the New Decade.
The use of stock photography in today’s world can not be overemphasised. It has continued to be of immense help for professionals & non-professionals across the world. Since its popularity in the 1920s, it has been embraced by photographers, creatives, journalists and various organisations. It is no surprise that many stock photo agencies have begun […]
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The Prevailing Issue of Child Abuse in Nigeria.
There is a prevailing crisis of child abuse going on in Nigeria and by extension, the whole of Africa. It is a crisis that began as a way of upholding the morals and culture in the society. However, this supposed protection and upholding of imminent good has in turn turned out to be dangerous itself. […]
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Why Men Should Have Empathy.
Dear men, you are allowed to have empathy for people. I was having a conversation with a guy yesterday and I was telling him about some of the struggles I have been experiencing lately. As I began to speak, it dawned on me that I was only wasting my time. I honestly do not know […]
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Do you have a Flight or Fight response to situations?
Do you have a Flight or Fight response to situations? Of a truth, I have only ever had a “flight” response to failing relationships. Sometimes, I ask myself Why I have gotten so used to “running” in the face of challenges. I elope all the time, so much so, I have become too comfortable with […]
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Unveiling With Lulu
Introducing! A web series interview on Lulusarena that tells the unique stories of founders, business owners and individuals who are making a difference in their field and profession.
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I Should Have Seen the Red flags.
I Should have seen the red flags I’m here staring at the ceiling, thinking to myself as I replay Andra Day’s red flags. “I should have known I’d lose everything… I should have known red flags were warning me, now my soul drags behind my feet but I’ll be fine I guess. You meant no […]
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Positive Self-deception.
Positive self-deception is the act of convincing oneself of truth or lack of truth for the sole purpose of self-fulfilment and positivity. The Oxford Academic Journals defines deception as the deliberate distortion of information in order to deceive others. However, positive self-deception is different from other forms of deception because it aims to produce positive […]
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My Dalliance With Pressure.
My Dalliance With Pressure. I haven’t been able to write anything lately or should I say I haven’t been able to write from the heart for weeks now. I want to be able to write and express how I truly feel without feeling some kind of way or thinking about how valuable the content […]